The Ultimate Cape Cod Wedding Venue Guide (From a Cape Cod Wedding Photographer)

Cape Cod weddings just feel good. Something about the ocean air, the slower pace, and the fact that no one’s in a rush makes the whole day settle in. Couples are more present, things feel easier, and the focus naturally shifts to being together instead of keeping up appearances. That’s always my favorite kind of wedding day. If you’re drawn to that laid-back, coastal energy, you’re probably starting to look at Cape Cod wedding venues and wondering which ones actually make planning easier, and which ones just look pretty online. I’ve photographed weddings all over the Cape, and I’ve seen how much the right venue can shape how your day feels. So I’m breaking it all down for you in a way that’s simple, honest, and actually helpful.

A bride and groom walking hand in hand at their cape cod wedding venue

5 Cape Cod Wedding Venues You Won’t Want to Miss 

Eastward Ho! 

Eastward Ho! is the kind of place where you don’t feel like you’re managing the day, you’re just in it. There’s space to linger, to breathe, to actually talk with your people instead of rushing to the next thing. That calm shows up everywhere, from getting ready through the last song of the night.

I recommend this venue to couples who care more about how the day feels than how it photographs on Pinterest, because it naturally supports connection without needing over-planning.

  • Maximum guest capacity: 160

  • Indoor and outdoor options: Yes, and they’re all stunning 

  • Available year-round?: Yes, and summer here is amazing 

  • On-site accommodations?: No, but luckily, there are plenty of hotels close by 

  • Getting-ready rooms on-site?: No, but again, the hotels nearby are great, and transportation is easy 

  • Private beach access for photos?: Yes, which, as a Cape Cod wedding photographer, I love every time

Everything to Know About Planning an Eastward Ho! Wedding

Eastward Ho! is perfect for the couple who wants a day that feels elegant (but not ritzy), with its wide-open spaces and classy reception area. If that’s you, I’ve got you covered with my top tips for planning a wedding here:

  • One thing to know upfront (and I always like to flag this early so there are no surprises): Eastward Ho! does have a guest dress code. Sharing this on your wedding website or invitations keeps things smooth and avoids any awkward moments day-of.

  • In my opinion, the best time of year to get married here is in the summer. Summer nights on the coast always feel beautiful, and there’s something about a golf course setting that thrives in these months. 

  • They do have all-inclusive packages, which I love for you, because they handle everything from catering to bar services, which takes a lot off your plate. 

A wedding ceremony set up for a wedding at cape cod wedding venue eastward ho!
A bride and groom walking on a beach at their cape cod wedding venue

Shining Tides

Shining Tides is perfect for those who want weddings to feel intimate and relaxed while still having the elegant charm of a coastal cottage. The venue is an old summer inn that was renovated into a wedding venue, so it’s cozy and welcoming, and trust me: weddings here feel like a dream.

  • Maximum guest capacity: 200

  • Indoor and outdoor options: Just outdoor, but there is a covered porch for receptions  

  • Available year-round?: No, only mid-May through October to ensure you get the best weather for your big day 

  • On-site accommodations?: No, but there are lots of stunning hotels near 

  • Getting-ready rooms on-site?: Yes, the cottage on the property has getting-ready rooms perfect for your prepping  

  • Private beach access for photos?: Yes, perfect for oceanfront vibes

Everything to Know About Planning a Shining Tides Wedding

Shining Tides truly makes everything simple for planning a wedding here, so if you’re dreaming of a laid-back day, you’ll love it as much as I do. I’ve captured several weddings here, and these are the top tips I’ve learned to help you plan yours:

  • This is one of those venues where a lot of decisions are already handled for you, which I love, especially for couples who want to stay excited about planning instead of being overwhelmed by it. Catering, coordination, the dance floor… It’s all built in, so you can focus on the parts that actually matter to you.

  • Since they’re only available for weddings for a few months out of the year, you’ll want to book ASAP to reserve your date! 

A wedding reception setup at cape cod wedding venue shining tides

The Dennis Inn

The Dennis Inn is one of those places where the day doesn’t feel rushed from the second you wake up. And honestly? That matters more than people realize.

I’ve watched couples here sip coffee together in the morning instead of staring at a timeline. I’ve seen parents wander in and out of rooms, kids running around barefoot, friends sitting on the porch chatting before anyone’s even dressed. There’s no “okay, what’s next?” energy; it’s just… calm.

Getting ready here feels like getting ready at home, not backstage somewhere. You’re not hiding from guests or being shuffled around. You’re present. You’re laughing. You’re actually with the people you love instead of waiting for the ceremony to start. That’s why I love Dennis Inn for couples who care more about how the day feels than how much they can fit into it.

  • Maximum guest capacity: 100-230

  • Indoor and outdoor options: Yes, and both are so gorgeous  

  • Available year-round?: Only May through October are available again, so that the weather is perfect for your big day

  • On-site accommodations?: Yes, for up to 8 guests  

  • Getting-ready rooms on-site?: Yes, the inn has separate rooms to get ready before the ceremony 

  • Private beach access for photos?: No, but the property gives us so many quiet, beautiful pockets (I always end up sneaking couples away for a few minutes just to breathe)

Everything to Know About Planning a Dennis Inn Wedding

There are a few tips I’ve learned from capturing days here that will help you throughout the planning process (and decision-making): 

  • Wedding weekends here change everything. Instead of cramming all the meaning into one day, you get space to settle in. Rehearsal dinners feel intentional. Mornings are slower. 

  • You can choose to have a tented ceremony on the lawn here for an additional cost. This is perfect for warm summer days or for rainy days. 

  • Catering is handled on-site, which means fewer decisions, fewer emails, and way less mental load while planning.

A bride and groom's first kiss at their Dennis Inn wedding
A reception at a Cape Cod wedding venue

Wequassett Resort

Wequassett Resort is often chosen by couples who want things to feel taken care of; not because they want something flashy, but because they don’t want to spend their wedding day managing logistics.

And here’s the thing people don’t always expect: when it’s planned thoughtfully, Wequassett doesn’t feel big. It feels supported. I’ve photographed quiet, emotional ceremonies here where the only thing couples are focused on is each other. I’ve watched them take a moment alone by the water before joining cocktail hour. I’ve seen parents exhale knowing everything is handled, which lets everyone relax just a little more.

When everything lives in one place, the day flows differently. There’s less rushing, fewer transitions, and more space to stay present.

  • Maximum guest capacity: 350

  • Indoor and outdoor options: Yes, with everything from ballroom to beachfront 

  • Available year-round?: Yes, and spring weddings here are literally a dream 

  • On-site accommodations?: Yes, and it’s something that makes planning so smooth  

  • Getting-ready rooms on-site?: Yes

  1. Private beach access for photos?: Yes, and the views are incredible 

Everything to Know About Planning a Wequassett Resort Wedding

If you’re considering a wedding at this Cape Cod wedding venue, here’s more info you should know: 

  • Whether it’s an intimate wedding or a grand party, Wequassett Resort has a spot for you. 

  • They offer all-inclusive packages that cover everything from catering and bar services to rehearsal time to tables and chairs. 

  • Late spring here is something special. The light is soft, the property feels alive again, and the pace of the day just… works. If you want a wedding that feels elevated without feeling overwhelming, Wequassett does that beautifully.

A wedding ceremony setup at Wequassett Resort
A wedding party posing for wedding photos at a cape cod wedding venue

The Wychemere Beach Club

Wychemere Beach Club is one of those venues where you can feel the shift happen as the day goes on. Mornings are calm. Afternoons feel light and easy. And by the time the sun starts to dip, everyone’s relaxed enough to fully let go and celebrate.

What I love most here is the space; not just physically, but emotionally. You’re not stuck in one room all night. You can step outside, take a breath, watch the sunset, sneak a quiet moment together before jumping back into the party. That flexibility changes how the day feels. You’re not being pulled in a million directions. You’re choosing where to be.

  • Maximum guest capacity: 320

  • Indoor and outdoor options: Yes, with a large variety of options 

  • Available year-round?: Weddings are available from April to December, and every season is just as beautiful 

  • On-site accommodations?: Yes, the resort here is huge

  • Getting-ready rooms on-site?: Yep, which eases transportation stress a lot 

  1. Private beach access for photos?: Yes, the venue has 4 miles of private beach access, perfect for sunset beach photos

Everything to Know About Planning a Wychemere Beach Club Wedding

Is Wychemere Beach Club your dream wedding venue now? If so, I get it. Here are a few more things to know about the venue: 

  • Late spring and early summer tend to feel the most natural, with comfortable weather, beautiful light, and a really smooth rhythm to the day. Their all-inclusive options also take a lot off your plate, which leaves more energy for the parts that actually matter.

  • This is another Cape Cod wedding venue that offers all-inclusive packages that cover catering and bar services for you, so that you just get to kick back and relax. 

  1. You can opt for a wedding on the beach here, which is something really special.

A Cape Cod wedding venue, Wychemere Beach Club
A wedding reception setup at Wychemere Beach Club

How to Choose the Perfect Cape Cod Wedding Venue

I’ve watched so many couples stress over making the “right” choice, and the truth is: the right venue is the one that lets you relax into your day. The one where you don’t feel like you have to perform or micromanage.

If you’re torn between a few options, that’s normal. And if you want to talk it through with someone who’s seen how these days really unfold, I’m always happy to help, even if it’s just to calm your nerves and remind you that you’re doing great.

A view from a cape cod wedding venue

Common Questions About Cape Cod Weddings

Cape Cod weddings are special, which means that they require a little bit of extra thinking. Don’t worry, though, I’m here to cover everything for you so that every decision you make feels confident and true to you. 

What’s the Best Time of Year for a Cape Cod Wedding? 

Overall, summer will always be a fantastic time to get married on Cape Cod. Gorgeous sunsets, late nights, and mild weather make these months downright dreamy, and it works every time, no matter the venue. 

Should I Choose a Beach Wedding or a Venue Wedding on Cape Cod? 

Honestly, I love a beach wedding, but that’s why I suggested so many venues that have private beach access! It’s the best of both worlds, with the bonus of a rain plan and going through a venue that can help through every step of the way. 

Why Should I Choose a Cape Cod Wedding? 

There are so many reasons to choose a Cape Cod wedding. The gorgeous beach views are just a small part of it. The charming coastal atmosphere, the mild temperatures, the destination feel, and the fantastic venues make it that much better! If you’re someone dreaming about a day that’s easy-going and effortlessly lovely, a Cape Cod wedding is for you. 

A bride and groom kissing in a black and white wedding photo

Ashley Olafsson | Cape Cod Wedding Photographer

If you’re planning your Cape Cod wedding, I’d be honored to be there to capture it for you in a way that feels natural and calm, so that you can fully live your day. You can inquire about booking me here, and we’ll start going over the details to create the perfect day, together! 

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Ashley 

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